Here's the 'typical' goal-setting approach
1. Set your goals (ie. know what you want)
2. Take action-steps towards your goals
3. Evaluate & analyze your progress & process
4. Adjust the action-steps & your approach based on your evaluation (#3)
HOWEVER!
Doesn't really work like that in the 'real-world'
a.) Your thoughts are so clouded, you don't have clarity and truthful knowledge and desire of what you actually want
b.) so you just keep spinning your wheels
c.) depressing you, as you don't seem to get any closer to successes
d.) then you keep trying (as you're motivated!) - hoping that somehow you're going to get a different result
You need someone to help you work out what you EXACTLY want is step one
Boom-Boom
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